Plus size blogger, fashion photographer, cat lady and wife.
Plus size blogger, fashion photographer, cat lady and wife.
Recently I was lucky enough to do a photoshoot with the incredible Shannon Swift Photography. I’m a photographer, so usually I’m on the other side of the camera, so this was a whole new experience for me! The lovely folks at River Island were kind enough to let me borrow some of their plus size range to use in the styling. It was the first time I had tried out any of their range and I was really impressed.
The top and the denim jacket are both from River Island, the skirt, sunglasses and boots are from my own wardrobe. I wasn’t sure what the sizing was like so I sized up just in case, but you absolutely don’t need to. The range is very true to size so these ended up being oversized on me. The top is sadly now out of stock, but it was a stunning purple glittery see through mesh that I popped a black vest top and a harness bra under to add more detail. It looked so damn cool shining in the sun light!
However the real stand out piece that I fell completely in love with is the light blue slogan print denim jacket. It is sassy and wonderful and I need to add it to my wardrobe. It retails for £55 and the slogan on the back is actually painted on, so I would say this is definitely a hand-wash only sort of jacket! It is a little pricier than the average denim jacket but because of this painted detail and the superb quality, in my opinion I would say it is well worth the extra pennies.
This jacket worked really well sized up if you like a more oversized fit, it felt very rock and roll and quite masculine that I think fit this outfit really well. In your normal size this would be more tailored and so it really depends on how you like your jackets to fit. I love a pale denim wash and this is a beaut. I’m not a huge fan of slogan t shirts, but I love a good back print on a jacket and this is so feisty and fun.
Have you tried River Island’s plus size range yet? They currently stock up to a size 28, so here’s hoping they continue to expand their size range to be fully inclusive!
Thanks River Island for helping with the styling!
I love a good cruelty free makeup brand, and Colourpop are certainly a favourite of mine. While they are US based, they ship internationally and regularly have sales that make their products much more affordable. You will pay customs fees getting their products into the UK, but I can’t resist them and just had to share their eye shadows with you!
The Colourpop classic is their ‘super shock eye shadows’, these are unlike any eye shadow I’ve ever used before. Some people find these really hard to use, but I absolutely adore them! They are the creamiest and smoothest eye shadows I’ve ever tried. The texture is so soft, you need a more solid brush to apply them, a fluffy brush isn’t going to get the job done. They are really pigmented and have great staying power, I have hooded lids and these last all day with no problem!
These are blendable and available in a lush array of colours. I have so many of these now! I wish they sold them in palettes rather than just as singles, but I like them so much I don’t really mind.
Colourpop’s newest venture is into pressed eye shadow. They sell them in individual pans to make your own custom palettes, as well as in pre-made palettes with a colour theme. I love a good green eye shadow (because screw the beauty rule that says green eyes shouldn’t wear green makeup) so I opted to make myself a palette out of a lush mixture of green tones.
The palettes themselves are really adorable: purple, metallic and just the right amount of sass! They sell a mixture of mattes and shimmers and are slowly releasing more and more shades in these pressed pans. They are highly pigmented, smooth, and only $5 a pan! So often I buy palettes and end up not using a good chunk of the shades because they aren’t very ‘me’, this way I know I’ll use every shade. The palette itself is magnetic so you don’t have to worry about anything coming loose and escaping when travelling.
I really love Colourpop, they have such a great mixture of colours and shades in their products and are constantly bringing out new ranges that are so exciting. I would love to know what your favourites are!
When you are someone who prefers a feminine aesthetic, shopping for shoes can be an absolute nightmare if you have feet above a UK size 9. Believe me, I know those feels, I am a UK 10 myself. Finding shoes that fit is so difficult, but I have my go-to places that I can shop, so here are some of my favourite shoes that I’ve spotted recently!
River Island now sell up to a UK size 9, so while they aren’t big enough for my feet, if you are a size 9 you might find yourself some real treasures! These silver espadrilles are adorable and pineapple prints look to be reappearing again this summer.
These pale pink Puma sliders are available in up to a size 12! Cute but comfy and perfect for throwing on in the summer. I often shop in the men’s section of ASOS, their shoes are often more gender neutral than a lot of stores and you can find some real treasures if you hunt for them.
Evans were my old reliable when we still had a store locally. Sadly we don’t have one any longer, but I still always check out their new in section online. Floral and spring go hand in hand, and these flats are totally on trend right now.
Marble print is such a big trend, especially with bloggers, and these trainers are a fun way to bring that into your outfit.
Summer for me, is all about Converses. They look so good with jeans, dresses, and everything in between. I love the destroyed denim style of these and can see them looking so cool with a summer dress.
For something ultra feminine with a stiletto heel, I love these palm print shoes from Yours Clothing. Yours sell their footwear in up to a size 10 in nearly every style and are probably my favourite place to go for more feminine styles.
I am always on the hunt for shoes in a size 9 and higher, so if you have any recommendations for more stores we can shop at, please do tell us about them in the comments section!
TW – This article talks about diet, exercise and eating disorders.
When it comes to truly body positive role models, it would seem that we are somewhat lacking. One of the people often hailed as a bopo role model is Iskra Lawrence and well… let’s talk about the problems with that, because there are A LOT. For those that don’t recognise her name, Iskra Lawrence is an English model known for her blonde hair and curves, her website states that she is a UK size 14, and that she is a ‘champion of body diversity’.
So, where to begin? Iskra isn’t a fan of being called plus size, ‘what upsets me is the fact that if you’ve categorized me, you’ve categorized all women my size and above in the real world. The term has a really negative connotation thanks to the fashion industry’ (shape.com) like many other models who work in the plus size industry. If someone doesn’t want to be called plus size (and whether or not a size 14 model should be called plus size is a whole other debate), why are they happy to take work from companies for plus size women and profit off of our part of the fashion industry? If you don’t want to be called plus size, stop taking work that proud plus size models could be doing instead. Rather than embrace the term that so many of us need to know where we can shop, she buys into its negative connotations. Like a petite section, or a maternity section, we need the label so that we can shop, at a size 14 however, Iskra doesn’t and her privilege blinds her to the need for the term.
✨😝I'm sorry I couldn't help myself…This is for anyone who has ever been called FAT. Thanks for the inspirational words on a recent pic @zseanzbrown 👇🏼 "Fat cow. It's only cus every F****r on this planet is obese that that's the norm… Plus-size models? give me a F*****g breaking. Everyone needs to stop eating McDonald's, the NHS is f****d because of people like her eating too many bags of crisps." Opinions are like arseholes – everyone's got one🙌 thanks to the dream team for making this happen at work today 📸 by @ricktphoto @mandywinrow @nickigillonstylist
Iskra regularly hits back at trolls who call her fat, famously she was photographed in a pile of crisps once, but when she responds unfortunately her focus tends to be on health, and that she is healthy, ‘Health comes in many shapes and sizes’ (Daily Mail). The problem with this is that it implies that only those who are healthy deserve self-love, and it is a very ableist statement. Not everyone can be healthy, and implying that her healthiness is a reason why she shouldn’t be called fat suggests that being fat is wrong, and that your lack of health is wrong too. I’m not here for her repeated ableism.
One of the brands Iskra is most vocal about working with is Aerie. Aerie pride themselves on not using Photoshop in their adverts which is awesome, however they’ve been caught up in their own bopo scandals. In 2016 they created what they called a ‘hoax’ advert for April Fool’s Day with the hashtag #AerieMan starring plus size blogger Notoriously Dapper. There was a lot of confusion around whether or not he even knew the campaign was a hoax when he agreed to take part. It featured male models in their underwear in bubble baths, yoga poses, dancing, and more, and Aerie later admitted the whole campaign was a joke after it had been heralded as bopo awesome. The campaign featured more diverse men than usually seen in underwear modelling and it had been great to see chest hair, bellies and unretouched male bodies, so to be told it was all a joke wasn’t cool. Iskra continues to work with them and promotes them as body positive, but their attitudes towards body positivity for men being used in an April Fool’s Day joke leave something to be desired.
Iskra is also a brand ambassador for NEDA, the National Eating Disorder Association, and created the NEDA Inspire Awards through her work with them. Sadly however, on several occasions Iskra has been seen promoting diets and even diet replacement drinks. She’s very careful never to use the word diet, and instead substitutes it with ‘health’. Switch out the world health for diet and see how problematic her language really is.
‘My biggest health tip for travelers:
Prepare, and don’t use traveling as an excuse. Research healthy restaurants or food stores, and buy snacks—nuts, fruit, protein bars—so you don’t reach for junk. Even if you only do squats while you’re brushing your teeth or some ab exercises before bed, just do it! You will thank yourself for it.’
There are so many instances of her talking about what to eat and what to not eat, and yet she is an ambassador for an eating disorder charity. For me, they don’t go hand in hand and her constant food and exercise talk could be extremely damaging for someone suffering with an ED or disordered eating who might look to her as a body positive role model. More recently, Iskra has been working with Self magazine and controversially published a ‘New Year’ diet plan with them. Several people worked out the calorie counts for whole days of this diet plan and found some to be as little as 1500 calories, and some suggested it hinted at orthorexia (orthorexia is a condition that often includes obsessive behaviour in the pursuit of a healthy diet). Advocating any kind of set diet plan should be totally against her work with NEDA. Ultimately this article was pulled from the internet and she later apologised for potentially triggering her followers, but this isn’t the first time she has been seen promoting diets. It’s also worth noting that she hasn’t removed her promotions of this diet and workout routine with Self, they are still all on her Instagram. Speaking of Instagram, Iskra’s is a constant stream of gym selfies and talk of working out, and she’s done many interviews talking about her gruelling workout regimen to achieve her figure. Her YouTube channel also features workout and exercise videos, and over on Twitter at the time of writing in her last 12 tweets, 4 contained information about her workout regime.
💚💙 walk with me & @NEDA this Sunday @mallofamerica to help raise awareness & funds for those affected by Eating Disorders! (Take a look at all the pics for more details) I really hope to see you all there, it really is so important that we fight to help everyone affected by the most deadly of all mental illnesses. . For all of you who can't be there, I walk for you… we ALL walk for you & as one. NEDA is all of you. It's there to provide you all with the help, support & materials to not only aid recovery but also create an empowered positive community in which we can learn, love & thrive. I'm so proud & grateful of every single person who makes NEDA's work possible. 💚💙 . Straight after I will also be doing a meet & greet @aerie store so make sure you come to both!! Cannot wait to meet you all😘💚💙 #everyBODYisbeautiful #aeriereal
Some extra receipts: pic.twitter.com/g17ShBzIHw
— Kitty Underhill 🐯 (@KittyUnderhillx) March 28, 2017
Previously Iskra worked with Almased, a meal drink replacement, appearing as a bride who didn’t fit into her wedding dress. This is an older advert, but Almased uploaded it to their YouTube channel in January and continue to use it to promote their products. While she has since apologised for these adverts on her YouTube channel, the more recent diet plans she published with Self show that her version of body positivity is still incredibly problematic, and isn’t for all bodies. Her focus is on health and being healthy, in a relentless way. Encouraging diet plans can be incredibly triggering and as someone who considers themselves a bopo role model, it’s clear she needs to think more before she participates in diet culture.
More recently, Iskra is one of the stars of Simply Be’s newest campaign, ‘We Are Curves’. A quick peek at Simply Be’s Facebook page shows that this campaign has created a lot of outrage, because all of the models, including Iskra, are hourglass shaped, and seem to be right at the bottom of Simply Be’s size range, which starts at a UK 12. A quick google tells me that actually, all 3 women featured in the campaign are a size 14. For a plus size company to use only size 14 models, and to claim that this is a bopo campaign to celebrate curves is letting down the plus size community once again. We are consistently presented with Iskra as an example of a plus size woman who loves herself, but she has a lot of privilege as a white, toned, flat bellied, hourglass figured woman who is a size 14. She doesn’t represent those of us who are fat but don’t have curves, or anyone who is above a size 18, never mind a size 24+. As a plus size community we want to see clothes on bodies that looks like ours, and a lot of us feel that Iskra isn’t that model.
With Iskra’s constant focus on health and exercise, it feels like she believes in body positivity… but only on her terms. There are body positive role models out there who use their voice and privilege to raise up the voices of bigger fats, those who are disabled, the LGBTQIA* community, and people of colour who are so underrepresented in the media. Instead, Iskra seems more focused on her own voice, and her own body type, and her own brand of self-love that comes with terms and conditions. I’m not here for those terms and conditions. Loving yourself is a hard journey, and it doesn’t come with stipulations and rules. If you position yourself as a body positive role model you must be here for all bodies, not just those that fit your own ideals of health and acceptability.
We deserve better bopo icons than Iskra Lawrence, so please do comment and let me know who you feel really deserves that title!
The Problem With Plus Size Beauty Pageants
Last year, I was supposed to take part in a plus size beauty pageant. It wasn’t something I ever intended to be a part of, I stumbled into it accidentally at a plus size fashion event, but it seemed like a good idea at the time so I went for it. I’m not going to give specifics about the particular event I was going to take part in, but I am going to talk about plus size beauty pageants as a general event and my feelings on them.
When I applied I didn’t expect to get in, so I was incredibly shocked when I got an email telling me I had made it through. The email told me I needed to pick what region I wanted to represent, and gave a whole load of instructions on what to do next. At first I was excited, wow, someone thinks I’m pretty enough to be in a beauty pageant! I’ve never felt pretty enough, but here was someone validating me. Those thoughts alone show how problematic the events are.
One of the big things that immediately caused me concern was how much money I had to put forward to even take part in the event. They advise looking for sponsors, but finding sponsors who are willing to pay hundreds of pounds for you to take part in exchange for ‘exposure’, because that’s really all you can offer, is a hard one. Pageants are an expensive thing. They all have an initial outlay that allows you to take part, then there are the outfits for each round, the hair, the make up, they even offer pageant training! I was baffled by all the information but joined some Facebook groups about plus size beauty pageants to learn more.
The first thing I learnt is that there are a lot of plus size beauty pageants, and that they all seem to intermingle with each other. There are people who do the circuits and enter every pageant, who also offer training and tips on how to do well in them. None of these pageants are free to those participating in them. With hindsight, this really bugged me. Without the people entering the pageants, there isn’t a pageant, so why are those entering paying for the privilege? I understand that the event itself costs money to put on, event hire, staff, website hosting etc, but it seemed to cost a lot of money to be allowed to take part. There are a lot of pageants, and there is a lot of money within the pageant circuit.
The second thing I realised, is that just because these are plus size beauty pageants, doesn’t mean that they don’t have their own beauty standards that need to be adhered to. At first I was excited, thinking that these are fat bodies being celebrated, but then I began to think about it more, and the more I thought, the more uncomfortable I was with the whole concept. We absolutely should be celebrating plus size bodies and how beautiful and awesome they are, but a beauty pageant is still a beauty pageant, even if it includes a wider spectrum of sizes than the norm.
The more time I spent in the Facebook groups the more I realised that whilst these pageants celebrated plus size bodies, they celebrated particular types of plus size bodies more. Small fats size 14-20 were clearly favoured, hourglass figures were prominent, women who presented in a feminine way were also favoured. When I looked around these groups, I was the odd one out, still. They were far more diverse in terms of seeing women of colour being celebrated, but every body I saw did not look like mine. They were the acceptable fats we always see in the media, I was very much the exception to the rule.
The other thing I noticed in these groups was the weight loss chat. It was constant. Most of the pageants have a rule of a minimum of a dress size 14, and the amount of conversations I saw about how to get around this rule was incredible. It was incessant. I was genuinely surprised by this, but the ideal dress size in the groups was a size 14-18, and people were doing their utmost to be as small as possible by the time the pageant took place. These pageants might seem body positive on the surface, but the never ending diet talk and pressure to lose weight was everywhere.
I only saw evidence that these pageants were for cis-women, I have no idea if trans women would be allowed to enter or not, so I can’t speculate on that.
Charity work in your pageant sash was encouraged, and in fact, I suspect necessary to attempt to win the pageant. While at first glimpse these seems like something good to be encouraged, advertising yourself and your pageant seems very self serving and almost like taking advantage of charities and their causes. It didn’t sit right with me.
When I decided that I didn’t want to be part of the pageant any more there was no option for a refund, no mention of one ever actually, just a thanks and goodbye, join us again next year! Whilst I felt very iffy about the idea of the pageant, the reason I dropped out at the time was because I was unable to drive to the pageant for health reasons, but this did not matter to the organisers. On the subject of health, it was also in the rules that heels must be worn in certain rounds. Not all people can wear high heels, and not all people are able bodied, I don’t know if exceptions would be made, but when I mentioned not wearing heels, I was told I had to.
Looking back, certain things stick out to me about these pageants. The question of how ethical it is to charge an entrance fee to the people that you are relying upon to even have the pageant exist in the first place really bothered me. Pageants as a concept bug me. It is still about beauty and beauty standards, and adhering to those standards, not about pushing boundaries and celebrating what actually makes people unique and wonderful. There are winners and there are losers, and we are still placing a focus on beauty, even if it is a slightly bigger beauty than we are used to. We are still displaying bodies for the audience’s viewing pleasure, we are still being judged on our beauty, we are expected to conform and smile and pose, and I am just not OK with that.
There are plenty of plus size women who feel like beauty pageants have changed their world for the better, and that’s awesome. But I can’t help but feel like the world of beauty pageants is what needs to change, because being body positive and learning about self love is so much more than what a person looks like.
There are many different types of bodies that attract stigma in society, and as well as being plus size, I also happen to be relatively tall for a woman. I’m 5ft 11, not the tallest, but certainly well above average height for a woman. One of the biggest stigmas I’ve faced over the years has come from people who felt that any male partner I have had should be taller than me. I’ve never intentionally dated shorter men, but I’ve never let something as daft as being taller than a man stop me from pursuing a relationship with them if I liked them. In fact, my husband is shorter than me, and every serious boyfriend I’ve ever had has been shorter than me too. I’m going to talk about my experiences with this in a heteronormative context, because I’m a cis-woman who has only dated men, and cannot speak for any other experiences.
One of the common themes that crops up when people realise that I’m taller than my husband, is that this makes me unfeminine. Women are expected to be petite and dainty, discreet, and I am absolutely none of those things. I’m big in every sense, and I’m loud, but I’m also feminine. My tutus and dresses and pink hair will tell you that. Height does not dictate someone’s ability to be feminine. Being tall is not intrinsically masculine, much like being short is not intrinsically feminine. People are individuals and their height doesn’t determine where they fall on that scale.
I know I’m not the only tall woman who has dated men who have an issue with them being taller than them. Whether they’ll admit they have a problem or not is a different matter, it usually creeps out in little digs about ‘do you really have to wear those heels tonight?’, or sly comments about not always having to stand up so straight, about being condescending when you look down on him, which is not your fault! Your being tall is not the problem. The problem is that they are pushing their own insecurities onto you in an attempt to deflect. They are being emasculated by holding themselves to a gender construct entirely created by society. Rock those heels and hold your head up high, and if he can’t deal with you being tall and confident, use those long legs and kick him to the curb.
Photo by ClickClick Bang Photography
There is absolutely no physical reason that men should be taller than their female partner. There may have been some biological advantage way back when we lived in caves and hunted for our food, but we don’t any more. The only times my husband and I really notice our height difference is when I have to reach things down off the high shelves in our kitchen for him, or that I make the better big spoon than he does. Being the big spoon is kind of awesome by the way, try it sometime.
Whether you are 2 inches tall than your boyfriend, or 2 feet taller than your husband, it doesn’t matter, much like it wouldn’t matter if you were that much shorter than them either. The rule that women should be shorter than their male partners is a societal construct, much like blue being for boys, or skirts only being for girls. We here at She Might Be don’t allow society to tell us how we should live our lives, and being tall is just another thing that makes you unique.
It’s OK to be taller than your boyfriend. It’s OK to be over 6ft tall and wear 6 inch heels. It’s OK to be different from the norm. Your height is part of what makes you you, don’t let it interfere with your chance to find love. Love might be lurking round a shorter corner than you originally expected.
There are many trends and fashions that are hard to shop for when you’re a plus size babe, and the one closest to my heart is alternative fashion. I grew up as a pop punk kid with goth influences and plus size fashion can be a real let down when it comes to alt styles. I asked some of my favourite alternative plus size bloggers to share their favourite outfits for inspiration!
Ushshi is an absolute favourite of mine, and this outfit is casual, comfy goth chic at it’s best. This dress could be from almost any plus size store, but Ushshi makes it her own style with simple accessories and bad ass attitude.
Just a fat babe hanging with her belly out. #fatbabe #fatgirlforlife #plussize #plussizefashion #fatgirl #thunderthighs #effyourhealthstandards #effyourbeautystandards #effyourbodystandards #belly #vbo #mermaid #fatmermaid #redhead #redhairdontcare #metal #goth #alternativegirl #alternativecurves #girlswithplugs #girlswithtattoos #girlswithpiercings #fatredhead #hot
Katt looks like a punk rock mermaid with her red hair and her sequin skirt from River Island. She makes this look her own with a punked up denim waistcoat and a crop top. Mixing high street finds with more customised pieces is a popular way to try and stay true to your inner rocker.
@missguided #plus tshirt dress and @asos_loves_curve boots #psblogger I didn't wear ankle boots bc I was self conscious my calves are thick. WHO CARES?! Gr8 boots and gr8 legs 💃🏼🌳 #effyourbeautystandards #psfashion #andigetdressed #plussize #plussizestyle #fatbabe #bodypositive #bopo #selfie #plusisamust #psootd #plussizefashion #plussizeootd #thisisplus #biggirlsrock #plusisequal #curvesfordays #honourmycurves #honormycurves #fatshionista #fatshion #fatandfabulous #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #bigandblunt
I don’t know about you, but my inner goth loves a drapey oversized black dress. The straight size high street has them in droves, but for us plus size gals it can be slim pickings. I love this look from Diana, it’s simple and classic, and biker boots with dresses are always a win!
I have been having somewhat of a flare-up of my chronic illness, which is to say that I am always sick but I've been a bit sicker this last week or so. That means you get to see this look again for three reasons: 1) I have no content for you. 2) I am too wiped to make new content for you. 3) I look hot af in this @rebdolls Show Out mini skater dress. 😜 Harness from @unluckylingerie Shoes from @paylessshoesource Tutu from Amazon
An absolute fave of mine is the amazing Cailey Darling. Her social media is full of incredible make up looks and alternative stylings, she’s such a bad ass. She’s also disabled and legally blind, so talks about life as a spoonie too. This skater dress with a harness style is just incredible, that flash of colour in Cailey’s awe inspiring hair is all you need. Check out her insta feed for fire looks and serious makeup inspo for the bold and beautiful.
Natalie’s insta is total alt fashion goals. You can never go wrong with faux leather, and this mini skirt/leather jacket combo is everything. Faux leather is a classic for a reason. Go follow Natalie’s instagram, you won’t be disappointed! The fishnets and ankle boots rock too.
Missing long hair life, where my locks at! So tempted to colour my extensions lilac when I do my roots. Aww my chubby face💜☺️ #longhairornotlonghair #chubbycheeksforever #fatbabe #doublechinclub #noshameinmybody #bodypositivity #selflove #foxylocks #motd #fatandproud #nobodyshame #nobodyshamecampaign #effyourbodystandards #effyourbeautystandards #urbandecay #limecrimeredvelvet #redvelvet #whitehair #demiwhispies #ardell
Belle is from the same town as me, but we’ve never met, we really have to correct that! Her instagram feed is full of the sweetest pastel hair and pretty makeup. This Wednesday Addams inspired outfit is a goth classic for good reason. Belle is mermaid goals for sure.
Oh my goodness today is the 2nd last post of my fav 2016 looks! I can't go out of the year without posting this shoot I did with @cherry_velvety back in September! Someone on tumblr said I look like a "witch for hire" and I'm just all about that! That bag is really filled with hexes and potions! 😉🔮🌙 #alternativecurves #witchforhire #plussize #margotmeaniesbestof2016
When it comes to a list of alternative plus size bloggers, you just have to include Margot Meanie! If you don’t know who she is, you really have to check out her blog. She consistently shares awesome outfit inspiration like this adorable pinafore look that is what every goth plus size babe dreams of!
New Review – Feat. @bethdittofash – Link in Bio or http://lollylikesfatshion.blogspot.co.uk/2016/12/damn-girl.html #bethdittofash #dittoxo #fat #fatshion #radfat #psfashion #psblogger #plussize #plussizefashion #glassesporn #fatglamlife #psstyle #psootd #alternativecurves #curvesreign #fatandhappy #stylebeyond22 #TBCR #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #celebratemysize #30plusblogs #allbodiesaregoodbodies #bopo #justmegorgeous #nobs #effyourbodystandards #bethdittocollection #effyourhealthstandards #antifatbullying
Black with pops of a single colour is an alt fashion classic. This outfit is effortlessly cool, Lolly pairs a Beth Ditto dress with matching red glasses, shoes and choker, and a black fascinator. Dresses like this can easily be worn in a casual way for day time or as Lolly has styled it, perfect for an event or night out.
Shawna is the genius behind Chubby Cartwheels. Chubby Cartwheels is the sort of inclusive alternative fashion brand plus size babes dream of. Not only does she run a dreamy brand, she also has style for days. This velvety dress is a great mix of goth and retro; Morticia Addams meets seventies hippy chic. She made this dress herself… love!
Crop tops and high-low skirts… two things I never thought I'd actually buy and find cute on me. 🙂👍 I have a big belly covered in stretch marks (you can't see them in this low-res photo), so just the thought of sporting a crop top was out of the question. But shit, I look great in them, so fuck it. Lol. As for high-low skirts, I just didn't like how they look. 😂 I honestly thought they looked stupid until I actually wore one. I should've taken a video twirling because they're so flowy. 😍 – Crop top: @jeanswarehouseguam Skirt: $3 on sale at Kmart by Jaclyn Smith #guam #effyourbeautystandards #alternativecurves #honormycurves #celebratemysize #tcfstyle #daretowear #andigetdressed #skorchmagazine #goldenconfidence #fashiontruth #fatgirlsbewinning #allbodiesaregoodbodies #lifethrowscurves #bodypositive #plusblogger #plussizeblogger #fashionforwardplus #psblogger #plussizefashion #plussizefashionblogger #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #plussizefashionista #curvyfashion #curvystyle #bbw #plussize #tattoos #inkedup #girlswithtattoos
Being sorta goth in the summer is so hard, it’s hot and wearing all black makes the heat even worse. This outfit on Liily is perfect summer goth. Based in black, with vampy black lipstick to boot, this crop top and hi-low skirt combo is cool, literally.
When you find your dream jacket thanks to @evansclothing 💜 view y final Pokémon evolution as Peak Kitty on my blog today, link in my bio! #review #alternativecurves #psblogger #plussize #plussizefashion #plussizestyle #plussizeblogger #effyourbeautystandards #malice #harness #evans #lace #mesh #fashion #fashionblogger #fblogger #ootd #psootd #outfitoftheday #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #justmegorgeous #plussizeootd #plussizefashionista #fatshion #fatshionista #asos #asoscurve #quayaustralia #alternativefashion #curvyfashionista
And lastly, a favourite outfit from me. This is about the most ‘me’ I have ever felt in an outfit, and it came from Evans and ASOS. Add a good harness and the mixture of lace and mesh takes high street brands from fashionable to gothic glam.
There are so many indy brands who do amazing alternative fashion, but sadly not many that cater to plus sizes in a truly inclusive way. Take inspiration from these plus size rock stars and use current trends to your advantage!
Here at She Might Be, we are big fans of GatsbyLady. They consistently make beautiful pieces inspired by vintage fashion, they are always inclusive, and their social media is a wonderful variety of the different sizes they sell. When they mentioned that they were introducing day dresses to their line I was so excited. Their flapper inspired dresses are incredible, but obviously aren’t your usual day to day fashion, but the day dresses… oh my!
They very kindly sent me the ‘Amy Bohemian Dress with Bell Sleeves‘ to try out, and it was love at first sight. The print is a wonderful mixture of animal prints and paisley inspired designs making it very striking and different from anything I’ve seen lately, and the bell sleeves are an absolute seventies dream!
Statement sleeves look to be a big trend this season and GatsbyLady are very on trend with this dress in an authentically vintage way that still fits their aesthetic wonderfully. The material is thick, without being too heavy, and softly stretchy in a way that makes it really comfortable.
I’m pretty tall, 5ft 11 bare foot, and this dress hits me a couple of inches above the knee which is just fine by me! It will be more knee length on those of a more average height, but I never mind flashing a bit of thigh. I decided I wanted to feel like Marianne Faithful and popped on my biker boots with a simple necklace and let the dress do all the talking.
I wore this out on my birthday and got so many compliments on it! So far GatsbyLady have two other day dresses, the ‘Farah’ which is a bodycon dress, and the ‘Faith’ which is a mesh and halterneck dress, both with a similar print to the dress I’m wearing. I cannot wait to see what they do next!